Bullying is a conflict between an insecure coward (the bully) who preys on weaker individuals to feel powerful, and a low self-esteemed victim who feels helpless to stop it. Parents of victims usually contact school and/or the bully’s parents in hopes of ending the harassment. However, this won’t be enough to permanently help your child, because unless their self-esteem greatly improves, they have a 90% chance of attracting future conflicts. It’s no myth that opposites attract in order to find balance. Hence, weaker individuals often attract more aggressive personalities. Teaching a bully victim that they CAN stand up for themselves is the best way to stop future confrontations. We owe it to our child, to provide them with the proper tools for a strong and empowered future.

Taekwondo provides a pro-active environment for achieving self-confidence and success. One of the big reasons folks start Taekwondo is to learn how to hit or kick back. And yes, everybody learns that. However, the greatest aspect of Taekwondo is the huge increase in personal power that comes with mind/body training. The Taekwondo student becomes strong and confident through dedicated practice. They feel self-assured inside, and that attitude manifests outside as well; i.e. the way they walk, talk and hold themselves (posture). They learn how to stay calm, focused and react appropriately to any situation. They learn to keep eye contact, and good ways of diffusing situations without appearing weak. In short, the student learns how to stop bullying for themselves.

Another important aspect of Taekwondo, (especially for anyone who’s ever been victimized), is sparring. Taekwondo sparring is a re-creation of an attack/threat, but under safe and controlled conditions. Sparring is important because it teaches the student how to react under pressure without freezing in fear. Unresolved fears in Taekwondo students always manifest during sparring. But, with perseverance, discipline, and supportive family members, the transformation from fearful victim to courageous being is guaranteed.

For years, I’ve had bully victims walk into our studio. Those that stuck with our program transformed into strong, confident and empowered individuals. A few of them even went on to become National Taekwondo champions! Truly, no dream is impossible for those with self-confidence! Taekwondo provides many qualities necessary to effectively navigate thru life’s challenging times and personal conflicts. And not just through childhood, but through an entire life.

KIDS TAEKWONDO
FOR A BRIGHT FUTURE

Did you know that Taekwondo is 10 times more effective than Team Sports in developing a child's self esteem, confidence and discipline?

Everyone started as a white belt and still remembers how he/she wanted to be treated when they were "grasshoppers". Peer pressure gives way to encouragement and personal achievement. A positive and supportive attitude always exists among peers in Taekwondo.

We realize that every student is unique and has different aspirations. Competing in tournaments is optional. Although we also feature a competition training program for students, that are interested in competing at local, national and international levels, it is run as a separate program.

Our motto is “Nobody sits on the bench or feels "left out" because earning your next belt has nothing to do with your competitive edge. It's all about perseverance and becoming disciplined in your practice and in life. Being overly talented sometimes becomes a hindrance in achieving long term goals. A high percentage of our black belts and even some of our top competitors started off being not being very coordinated or athletic. They outlasted and surpassed most of the super talented "prodigies" that came and went.